Boys be simple.
Boys be slick.
Boys play games because boys are dicks.
But boys will be boys, right?
It’s no secret I find men to be irritating, at least, most of the time. We can be downright frustrating, but for most of us, that’s part of our allure, I suppose. For me, it just makes me want to fight a dude.
When I first started this blog, I used to write essays upon essays about how men act within this same-gender-loving spectrum. Honestly, at this point, I should write a book about it because there’s so much complexity involved to where you need some time to sit down read, digest, and reflect.
Although us guys can be simple, the way we’ve been conditioned in society has been complex. Men are emotional creatures. Unfortunately, a majority of men are raised to downplay their emotions in order to propagate the guise of manliness. In turn, men find other ways to express their emotions in the form of actions. Sex, is one of those actions men use to express themselves.
Men talk sex, and as a male that is wired a bit different from the collective viewpoint of male consciousness, I find myself constantly at odds with accepting certain ideas about manhood, especially after identifying myself as a same-gender-loving (or gay) male.
If you want to read more of these thoughts, you should check out “Boys Play,” an entry I wrote a while back. It seems nothing has really changed, huh? Boys will be boys, right?