Am I an advocate?

As I continue to blog my personal opinions and experiences about transitioning from being closeted to being out, it appears that I want to do more for the black gay community, if not for the overall gay community. Even after starting my Twitter page and chatting with proud gay men of color, who in their…

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What am I doing?

My goal is to finally be free. That freedom consists of working a job that I enjoy, living some place new outside of Alabama, and dating.  As of now, I work a job I used to enjoy but not so much anymore. I’ve outgrown living in Alabama; I feel that I’ll do better in another city…

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Friend?

Establishing friendships with other gay/bi men (whether out or not) may be a good bit of why my grasp of being gay was skewed when I first started out. If you are straight, there’s no real fear or worry about establishing a friendship with the same sex because you’re straight; there’s more worry of establishing a friendship with…

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Gauge

I’ve never considered myself to be overly promiscuous, and it’s not because I’m a prude or whatever, I’m just EXTREMELY cautious. I’m just like any other dude, sex on my mind 24/7; however, I try to keep those thoughts suppressed with thoughts of unicorns, jelly beans, and cheesecake. . . that shit doesn’t work though.…

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